embracing life while staying safe: a girl’s guide

hi there, beautiful souls. let’s talk about something real - that fear we all feel sometimes, especially when we hear stories like the colton underwood situation. it’s scary, right? but here’s the thing: we can’t let fear stop us from living our best lives. so let’s dive into how we can protect ourselves while still soaking up all the joy life has to offer.

the fear is real, but so is your strength

it’s totally normal to feel scared. the world can be a scary place, especially for us girls. but remember, you’re stronger than you know. as it says in 2 Timothy 1:7, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” you’ve got this, girl.

trust your gut, always

your intuition is your superpower. if something feels off, it probably is. don’t be afraid to speak up, leave a situation, or ask for help. proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” trust in yourself and in your higher power.

surround yourself with good people

choose your squad wisely. surround yourself with people who lift you up, who have your back, and who you can trust. “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). your tribe can be your safety net and your joy amplifiers.

stay aware, but don’t let fear paralyze you

it’s smart to be aware of your surroundings, but don’t let that stop you from experiencing life. take precautions, sure, but also take chances. dance, laugh, love. remember, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

self-care isn’t selfish

taking care of yourself isn’t just about bubble baths (though those are great). it’s about setting boundaries, speaking your truth, and honoring your needs. you can’t pour from an empty cup, so fill yours up first. “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own” (1 Corinthians 6:19).

embrace the moment, but stay smart

life is meant to be lived, loves. so go on that date, take that trip, chase that dream. but do it smartly. let people know where you’re going, have a safety plan, and trust your instincts. as Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” make this your season of smart, joyful living.

remember, you’re a warrior princess. you’ve got the strength to protect yourself and the spirit to embrace all the beauty life has to offer. stay safe, stay joyful, and keep shining your light. you’ve got this, girl.

-r+b(nm)

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