when he crashes our sacred space: 10 divine whispers for unexpected encounters
listen up, goddess. life's got a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes those curveballs come in the form of an ex who doesn't quite grasp the concept of "it's over." we're living our best life, surrounded by our soul sisters, basking in the glow of feminine energy and divine wisdom. then bam! he shows up, uninvited and unannounced, crashing our sacred space like a bull in a crystal shop. it's enough to make even the most centered woman want to sage the entire block.
but here's the thing, darling. we're not just any women. we're warriors of light, beacons of divine feminine power. we've walked through fire and come out glowing. we've danced with our shadows and emerged more radiant than ever. this unexpected encounter? it's just another opportunity for us to shine, to show the universe (and ourselves) just how far we've come. it's a chance to practice grace under pressure, to embody the teachings we've absorbed through countless nights of soul-searching and sister circles.
so take a deep breath, feel the earth supporting us, and remember: we are held by something far greater than any earthly drama. the divine has our back, sister. in the following tips, we're going to explore how to navigate this situation with the wisdom of the ages and the sass of women who know their worth. get ready to turn this potential disaster into a masterclass in self-love, boundaries, and spiritual growth. because that's what goddesses do – we alchemize chaos into cosmic glitter.
breathe, sister. remember, "the lord is my strength and my shield" (psalm 28:7). he's got you, even when your ex doesn't get boundaries.
ground yourself. feel the earth beneath your feet. "as for god, his way is perfect" (psalm 18:30). your path is yours, not his anymore.
don't let his presence dim your light. "let your light shine before others" (matthew 5:16). you're radiant, with or without him.
set boundaries with grace. "above all else, guard your heart" (proverbs 4:23). it's okay to protect your space, lovingly but firmly.
lean on your sisters. "two are better than one" (ecclesiastes 4:9). let your girls be your fortress of solitude and strength.
listen to your intuition. it's the divine feminine whispering. "trust in the lord with all your heart" (proverbs 3:5). your gut knows.
don't let his energy hijack your vibe. "do not be conformed to this world" (romans 12:2). stay true to your frequency, babe.
if you must engage, do it with love. "love your enemies" (matthew 5:44). but remember, loving doesn't mean letting in.
use this as a growth opportunity. "consider it pure joy when you face trials" (james 1:2). what's the lesson here, gorgeous?
remember, you're divinely protected. "no weapon formed against you shall prosper" (isaiah 54:17). his unexpected appearance can't shake your foundation.
darling, unexpected encounters are just the universe's way of testing your growth. stand tall, shine bright, and let your divine light illuminate the path forward. you've got this, sister.
-r+b(nm)