dining with a has-been: managing nick, the drama king

dealing with nick, the so-called real estate "has-been" who can't sell a house, has zero social skills, and doesn't get any pussy, can be quite the ordeal. to top it off, his family childhood friend is the one who sexually harassed you when you were trying to focus on your relationship with your new girlfriend. here's how to handle a dinner with him, using wisdom and a touch of humor. 😏

1. prepare your heart ❤️

before the dinner, take a moment to center yourself. remember proverbs 4:23, "above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." protect your peace and set your intentions to remain calm and composed.

2. set boundaries 🛑

establish clear boundaries in your mind. you don’t need to engage in conversations that make you uncomfortable. matthew 7:6 reminds us, "do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs." know your worth and protect your energy.

3. practice empathy 🤝

try to see things from nick’s perspective, even if it’s difficult. ephesians 4:32 encourages us to "be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in christ god forgave you." empathy doesn’t mean excusing bad behavior, but it helps you stay grounded.

4. stay calm and collected 😌

if nick starts drama, take a deep breath and remain calm. proverbs 15:1 says, "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." respond with kindness and avoid escalating the situation.

5. focus on the positive 🌟

shift your attention to the positive aspects of the dinner. engage with others who bring joy and laughter. philippians 4:8 advises, "whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

6. be the bigger person 🌿

choose to rise above the negativity. romans 12:21 reminds us, "do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." by maintaining your integrity, you set an example of strength and resilience.

7. reflect and release 🌌

after the dinner, take time to reflect on the experience. journal your thoughts and release any lingering negativity. psalm 55:22 encourages us to "cast your cares on the lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken."

navigating dinner with someone like nick, the has-been drama king, can be challenging, but by following these steps and leaning on scripture, you can emerge stronger and more at peace. remember, you have the power to choose how you react and who you become in the process!

-mitchell royel!